DeRooy is now being asked about procedures for reinstatement for someone with child molestation, and it says de Roy was concerned about the relationship BCH had with the other woman.
Angus is pointing out from the letter that because his wife wanted him home, the elders told him he should go back home, w/o regard for the two daughters, and that there does not seem to be any mention of child abuse, therefore, it was of not as much concern as the adultery.